A lot of grooms tell me the same thing before the wedding: "I'm not a photo guy." The good news is you don't have to be. The best groom portraits come from simple, relaxed poses that let your personality show. Here are seven go-to poses I use to make grooms look confident, natural and, yes, seriously cool.
1. The Jacket Adjust
Have him tug at his jacket lapel, button his jacket or straighten a cufflink while looking down or off to the side. It gives his hands something to do and creates that classic "getting ready" moment that looks effortless in photos.
2. The Lean
A shoulder against a brick wall, an oak tree or a doorframe instantly relaxes the body. Cross one ankle over the other, put a hand in a pocket, and look either at the camera or out into the distance. Savannah's historic architecture makes this one easy.
3. Hands in Pockets (Thumbs Out)
Fully buried hands can look stiff. Slide hands into the pockets with the thumbs resting outside, shift weight onto one leg and drop the shoulders. It's casual, confident and works in a full suit or just a vest.
4. The Walk Away
Walking slowly toward or away from the camera, looking down or glancing back over the shoulder, creates movement and kills awkwardness. Most grooms are far more comfortable moving than standing still.
5. Seated and Relaxed
Sit on steps, a bench or the edge of a chair with elbows resting on the knees and hands loosely clasped. Lean slightly forward toward the camera. It feels approachable and works beautifully for close-up portraits.
6. Dramatic Light and Shadow
Step into a window beam, a doorway or a slice of late-day sun and turn the face toward the light. A serious, thoughtful expression here looks cinematic, especially in black and white.
7. With the Groomsmen (Not in a Lineup)
Skip the stiff row of guys. Have them walk together, share a laugh, raise a toast or gather around the groom while he fixes his tie. Real interaction always looks better than forced smiles.
Tips to Look Your Best on the Day
Get the fit right. Jacket sleeves should show a little shirt cuff, and pants shouldn't pool at the shoe.
Keep your pockets empty. Phones, keys and wallets create bulges in every photo. Hand them to a groomsman.
Chin slightly forward and down. It defines the jawline and avoids a double chin.
Give your hands a job. Pockets, cufflinks, a lapel or your partner's hand all work.
Breathe and have fun. I'll coach you the whole way, so you can just enjoy the day.
Planning Your Savannah Wedding?
I'm a veteran-owned wedding photographer who loves helping grooms (and brides) feel completely at ease in front of the camera. See more on my wedding page, find inspiration in my guide to the best places for engagement photos in Savannah, and check my availability for your date.
